Where love is, there lurks sometimes hate too - a discussion topic by mOhanaji

"Where love is, there lurks sometimes hate too. It requires a lot of effort to become loving and noble", says mOhanaji here.

I would like to hear more about this. I think I've always known about what this phrase means, but in my opinion, and in my limited experience, I would say that it is extremely difficult to be loving to all, at ALL times! We would like to hear some pointers regarding how one could possibly become more loving and noble. I am asking for more guidance only because I know that this site gets checked out by people who are more experienced in life than me. So, our active members, any tips would be greatly appreciated by all, so please take your own time to post your valuable thoughts on it.
Thank you.